Best Asian Dating Websites in 2019

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ASIAN WOMEN

#1: AsianDating.com

With millions of users, AsianDating.com is very popular amongst Western men and Asian women. So if you’re a Western man looking to meet a woman from Vietnam, Indonesia, the Philippines, or from any other Asian country, then this is a terrific choice. That’s because Asian women are keen on meeting Western men! And that comes with a healthy back and forth response rate when it comes to messaging on this site!

Here are four tips that you may now use, on your road to meeting your next date:

  1. Completely fill out your profile, because that shows seriousness! Your could-be-dates will read your profile and would like you to give them some ‘ice-breaker-ammo’ while you’re at it.
  2. Upload several photos. One or two headshots, one of you doing something you enjoy very much, like a hobby! And one you’d like to upload just for fun. That’s because you’ll give them more to think about if you do it this way.
  3. Upgrade to a paid account. And I’d recommend upgrading to platinum if you do. That’s because most of the women have a free account, and one can only talk to them if you have a paid account. It’s the way of the dating world. But what a great idea. Because you’ll have a huge leg up on men that don’t upgrade!
  4. Visit the site each day, or every other day. That’s because you’ll be more active online that way, and women like that. 
5/5

Website, Android app.

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FILIPINA WOMEN

#2: FilipinoCupid.com

With over 3 million users, and hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of success stories, this site works for a lot of people. Active users state that women on FilipinoCupid are generally easy to talk with because they’re interested in meeting Western men. But because English is their second language, you might want to spend a bit more time than usual. Because deciphering the other person’s hopes and dreams is part of dating!

Here are a few tips on how to succeed with Filipino Cupid:

  1. Don’t rush into a relationship that you’re not sure about. Get to know the person you’re talking to. 
  2. Visa petition approval might take a while, so be honest and up-front about your intentions. That goes both ways.
  3. Building and cultivating a relationship takes time. So be online more often than not, and pay attention to one person at a time, even if there are multiple people that you’re speaking with. 
  4. Keep it clear. Don’t try to be fancy.
4.9/5

Website, Android app.

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THAI WOMEN

#3: ThaiCupid.com

In my mind, Thai Cupid is the largest Thai dating sites. That’s because there are over a million members. And those members are either Thai women looking for Western men, or Western men looking for Thai women. That’s a specific bunch! In a good way for you!

Here are some of the actual users commenting on their experience:

“Noi and I met on Thai Cupid and began a correspondence and photo file exchange. Our language shortcomings were overcome using the translator as a third party in a LINE group chat. Things progressed well as we shared many values and interests. After about 70 days I traveled to meet her in Hat Yai, and we also planned a getaway to Koh Lipe if all went well. Her friend has a car, and they picked me up at the airport. The 3 of us went for lunch in Songkhla. Her friend gave us some alone time, I expressed my inspiration in her. From then on our romance blossomed. And we made the romantic escape to Koh Lipe for scuba, snorkeling, seafood dining. Five months later we met again and traveled to Koh Chang and Koh Kuud. In 2 months I am taking early retirement and we moving to Cha Am together. A good customizable search engine, but be patient.”
– Andy and Noi

“We met on 2 August on Thai Cupid. It was love at first sight. With each message, we realized how much we have in common. This was followed by video chats, and on August 25 I met my wannipha at the Khon Kaen for 6 days. I have never loved anyone so much as my wannipha, I have found my soulmate. Now we are planning our future together and forever. Thank you thaicupid for bringing us together. We are delighted and feel that we have found the right one forever!” – Markus

Here are some tips for you to boost your success rate:

  1. Stay clear from Pattaya / Phuket in general. Those are tourist traps and may get you into more trouble than you bargained for.
  2. Look for genuine, honest, funny ladies.
  3. Don’t report women who are looking for money. Just figure that they’re in need, and close your conversation with them. The world is tough enough as is, and we’re not in their shoes. 
4.7/5

Website, Android app.

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INDONESIAN WOMEN

#4: IndonesianCupid.com

Indonesian Cupid is a lesser known, more underground Asian dating site. But it still boasts close to a million sign-ups! Relative to the number of people that live in Indonesia, there aren’t that many users (260 million people, 1 million sign-ups, with half of that being Western men). But that means that the ones that ARE on this site are actively looking!

If you’re into Indonesian females, then here’s some tips to get you started on the right foot:

  1. Upgrade to the best service IndonesianCupid.com has to offer. That’s because all their options unlock at that level, which means unparalleled access, comparing it to their other payment plans. 
  2. If you’re looking into the 3-day-trial, don’t. The system is rigged towards getting you into premium plans, so I’d recommend upgrading right away. That’s because you can then enjoy premium features, instead of getting sold. 
  3. If you’re thinking of getting obsessed, don’t. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

Want to hear real success stories? Here are not one, but two!

1. I met my future husband here, and I will recommend this site to my other single friends. Thank you, IC.
I met him sometimes back. But the communication didn’t go well as I was busy with my activities. After a few months then he requested friendship on my FB and I still recognized him and responded a few days after. Knowing that he used to come to Indonesia made my curiosity is growing and accept chatting with him on FB, and amazingly the chat is growing and more interesting. Less then a month he planned to see me in the next two months. What a quick action though but we got along well and enjoyed each others companion. Now, this coming February he’ll be back (2 months after the 1st met), we will have out short holiday to a few places and will check on the wedding package (omg) for early next year. I am glad I met him as he is (maybe) the only person I met in this site who can understand a unique person like me lol. We met up and spent time together, shop, eat, visit places together. All feels so right.. I don’t know why I came to this site while others offered the same too, but one thing for sure, I met my future husband here, and I will recommend this site to my other, single friends. Thank you, IC

2. I trust the site for dating and chosen couple
One year we relationship.. Bismillah now one step closer we get married. We lots talk in BBM because he is very busy with his task after it we were dating and commitment serious… although sometimes we have different personalities I don’t know we have heart bond that I never feel before because I trust the site for dating and chosen couple.

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VIETNAMESE WOMEN

#5: VietnamCupid.com

Specifically built to match Vietnamese women to Western men, this site has seen a rapid growth of userbase over the last couple of years. And it now boasts close to 800.000 members! With more than 200 success stories there are definitely people that find love and share it publicly! 

Here are two of the users sharing their stories:

“I met my wife here back in December 2009. We were married in 2013’after visiting her 2 times in Vietnam. Now she lives in Norway with me, and she has Norwegian citizenship also. We also have a son who is 10 months old, so we are delighted.”- Lars Oyvind

“Thank you for your site! I feel totally grateful for being here and getting to know several people. I now found true love for my life. We experience highs and lows of our relationship, and it’s worth it for us to treasure more the time we are together. Thank you!” – Jane

And here are two tips to get you into VietnamCupid, the right way, our way.

  1. If you’re into high-tech and expect this site to be that way also, then it’s probably not the right site for you. That’s because the site is clear, but it’s also a bit slower.
  2. VietnamCupid is into connecting you with your future Vietnamese wife. Aka, longer term. If you’re looking for a two-week romance, Tinder might be a better option.
4.5/5

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JAPANESE WOMEN

#6: JapanCupid.com

Looking to meet Japanese beauty? Then this is the site to sign up to. That’s because there are over 700.000 members, with about half of those members being female. That’s a lot! 

Two hints to get you started on the right foot:

  1. Some girls don’t speak English that well. That means that you can be her English teacher for a year or two. Hello.
  2. Here is how the overall process works: invest in the premium service > send a lot of first-touch-messages. As in, ‘Hi, my name is …’. > Get cellphone numbers. 
4.5/5

Website, Android app.

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KOREAN WOMEN

#7: KoreanCupid.com

Korean Cupid is the leader when it comes to matching Korean women to Western men. And that’s because the website is built specifically to accommodate that!

Two tips to help you on your way, the right way

  1. You can meet your future girlfriend on a dating site. You can even meet your future wife on a dating site. A lot of women speak English and are curious about dating foreigners.
  2. Suggest spending time together at important events, such as Christmas. If she’s willing to and follows through, you’re on the right track.
4.3/5

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MALAYSIAN WOMEN

#8: MalaysianCupid.com

Popularity: 1 star
Platform: Website, Android app
By going to this link, you can find a list of users and check out their photographs!

Here are my tips for success:

  1. If you’re looking for a lot of attention, then this might be the right site for you. That’s because after reading a forum post about this site, I got very excited about your prospects! “New male members will be assailed by a rush of interest.”
  2. It’s a different world and a different time zone. Understand what Filipina history is like, and look up current affairs.
4/5

Website, Android app.